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Training Up Our Children in God

In talking with my mother about our decision on whether to start preparing Shannon for a professional dance career, we spoke about laying a strong spiritual foundation, and she doesn’t feel our kids are getting enough, due to our style of home church (and having no specific children’s program). Afterwards, I spoke to Joan Strain about it, since she has raised Christian kids in this same kind of home church environment. She concurred with my mother on the importance of laying a foundation and spoke of three specific practices the kids should get:

  1. Prayer: Joan used to pray with each of her children individually. I was actually thinking lately about prayer, and how the kids need to learn how to pray, so I’ve decided that on the nights we do family read-aloud at bedtime, that we should end that time with family prayer.
  2. Scripture Memorization: Joan felt strongly that she wanted to “hide the Word in their hearts”, so that, one day, the Spirit could bring scriptures readily to the children’s minds when needed. So she got her young kids into Awana so they would memorize lots of Bible verses (and they also memorized one verse a week, with rewards, at home). Our game of Dragonraid facilitates this, so I’m going to put higher priority in getting that going again. I’d like us to work on a verse a week, too, or just learn them as they come up in the Dragonraid game.
  3. Corporate Worship: both moms stated how important it is for the kids to participate in corporate worship. Joan got her kids involved in another church’s youth group as soon as they reached the pre-teen and teen years. Another way to get this is through Christian summer camps, which I’ll look into (and VBS, which our kids have done).
  4. Christian Literature: this is one I’m adding myself. I realized that instead of giving the kids a largely secular homeschool education (through our reading list), even if they’re classics, they could miss out on His story. So I’m thinking of adopting the Sonlight reading list (instead of RC or AO or TJed, which are mainly classics). We’re actually unschooling, but I might like to use the Sonlight book list in some way. I also want to incorporate the books we read in church life, and spiritual classics. I think it would be a good idea if the kids were each reading: 1 spiritual book; 1 educational book, and 1 fun book. They could have 3 books going at once, or rotate between these. Maybe this would start when they reach Jr. high age.
Published Tuesday, May 06, 2008 8:49 AM by jer

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Julia Phillips said:

I have found that one of the most important things I have done for our children is to read the Bible together, and then talk about it, and then pray.  I have written about it in an eHow.com article.  The benefits are tremendous.  The children get to know the entire Bible quite well, so they can interpret scripture using scripture.  They can also understand the context that the stories are in, because they have read the book from its beginning.  Another blessing is that it gives us daily encouragement.  I am starting to ask the children to 'teach' the lesson each day; I hope this will teach them to be able to teach their own children.  I consider that teaching my children the Bible has got to be one of the most important lessons that I have been teaching them, though it doesn't end there.

Some times, when we sit down to read, the children get into fights about one thing or another, mostly what seat they want.  It is then that we are most reminded that it is not only the reading of the Word that is important, but the DOING of the Word.  One day I heard myself shouting at the children to "Just sit down! We're Christians, and we are going to read the Bible!"  We all had to laugh at our own hypocricy.  Though I am the first to admit that I do not always practice my religion in the way I would like, the Bible is always there to guide, correct, remind, and convince us many good things.

In fact, if I were to encourage any family to do anything together, it would be the reading of scripture.  I have heard many tales of people getting saved because of the reading of scripture, and the Bible does say, "Faith comes by hearing... the Word of God."  

The only other things I would really encourage other families to do is to worship together, and minister together.  Children need to get in the habits of praising the Lord in all circumstances, and they need to learn to get outside of themselves and to give of themselves and their treasure to others: to think of others more than themselves.  This doesn't happen automatically, but is modelled and taught by those that are older.  However, how this works its way into fruition can be the result of much imagination.  I used to have my oldest help me teach the youngsters when I taught.  And I had my children help me on a number of projects.  Now-a-days I have been in school and have not been in an overt ministry role, but I look forward to doing it again, very soon.

May 8, 2008 11:30 PM

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